Girls working after marriage is good or not?

Yesterday while talking with few of my friends they just started talking about whether girls should work or not after marriage. Few of them were telling that they should work because they should not lose their freedom after getting marry, Like us(boys) even they have their own dreams since they started studying to do something in their life and have their own personality. But few of them strictly opposed it and they are telling that no girls should not go for work, because they have lot of responsibilities to be taken take care at home. Only she can manage the kids and no one else can take care of it like that, also they are arguing that why should she work when we are there to take care of her, if she is qualified let she teach children at home like that.

These things are really provoked me to think whether girls should work or not? As a girl I prefer to work and to achieve something in my career. But what should be the main priority to think of when it comes to family and career. Both are important, being an mother she has to take care of family and to be successful in her career she need to work hard and concentrate on her work as well.

When both are important it depends on how do we manage the things, and to balance everything the support from her life partner and family is also important. Nothing is impossible if we learn to manage the time and responsibilities. We have few great women who achieved a lot in their life being an successful housewife as well. If they can do it means, then cant we do it? We can, only thing is Willpower. We should be confident enough to manage our responsibilities.

Even though we are modernized still we see lot of girls suffering in the case of dowry and other things. These things will happen only if we are dependent, if we are independent then we can avoid them. Everyone speaks torturing girls for dowry should stop and system should change these things. But nothing will change until and unless we change ourselves, and we learn to manage.

This post is not against the guys its about a thought of the guys reaction towards girls. Marriage is commitment, there both are committed to each other , so both should sacrifice and compromise with few things. Don’t force girls always to compromise.

Be a Multitasker to get succed in your Carrer….

Are you thinking why we need to be multitasker? Isn’t it enough to be an expert in our domain?? If you think so, then you are wrong. Organisations in a quest to maximize productivity with the help of minimal resources , are identifying and retaining employees with multi-tasking abilities.

In an era of specialization, the necessity of having a multi-skilled workforce has become a necessity. It can lead to increased productivity of the organization. Organisations are looking out for multiskilled workforce in order to reduce hiring and increase efficiency. They can have fewer people who are able to do the lot work in an efficient way. And its required to be multi-skilled to grab more opportunities in the organizations where we have lot more competition who are all well talented.

Everything is business oriented think, “if you can able to get both management and programming work done paying 50 to a single person then why to think to hire two people in his place paying more than that”. Inspite of pay you can also save the money that you will invest on resources like providing machine to two people and other incentives. It might looks silly but its true. Now a days organizations thinks in such a way that rather than keeping so much of people lets we have fewer people who are efficient to do multi-tasks.

Benefits to organizations:
• Optimal utilization of workforce
• Easy deployment of employees varied job responsibilities
• Increased Productivity and better quality of deliverables
• Creation of a flexible workforce which is well aware of the organization’s needs.
• Motivation to employee engagement.


Being multitasker is an additional skillset for professionals, it helps them to be more diversified and high levels of motivation and enthusiasm. So if an employee enhances his skillset according to the needs of the organization he will be far more valuable to the company and will be the potent force in the market. Also they should be able to mould themselves so that they can brand themselves “in demand”.

Don’t think that these things will helps out only in the time of recession but also its required in the booming economy where companies attract to retain the best business.

Benefits for employess:
• Reduction in job insecurity
• Greater individual productivity
• Better growth prospects
• Holistic prespective regarding the organization’s business
• Can achieve his personal goals quicker


Being mutli-skilled and ablitiy to do muli-task is not an boon, its requires lot of dedication, hardworking and concentration. If you are confident enough to reach your goals and achieve it then sure you can do it. If you determined to do it then you will find the lot more ways to do it.

Here are few tips to be a multitasker:
• Plan the day carefully and precisely
• Have mini goals for day to complete your work efficiently
• Prioritise the assigned tasks
• Get encouraged to focus on the task at hand
• Get trained to handle each task immediately without delaying it
• Allow free time or intervals to avoid stress and frustration

How to make your man love you forever?

How to make your man love you forever?


Are you thinking about how to make your man fall in love with you? Hope , most of us are in need of some advice about this . Its tough to make man love you forever… IF You feel so then let us discuss how to overcome from this.

Here are the few tips to make your man love you forever:

1. The main thing to make him love you forever is never lose yourself in the relationship. Every man wish to know that their partner adore him but he also wants to have her own interests and life. No man likes if women depends completely on him for each and everything. The more dynamic you are , the more he loves you.


2. Keep yourself busy and try to help him in his needs, encourage his activities and be as good friend and welwisher. Try to understand his commitments towards his personal and profession life and help him overcoming out of them when is in trouble. In that way he respects you and loves to share everything you. He will understand that out of your busy schedule you are making time for him and available to him whenever he is in need of you. This helps in building a strong relationship.

3. One more sensitive part in this relationship is you should respect the people whom he cares a lot. It might be little tough to accept few persons but if you want to grab your men attention towards you means you should love whom he cares.

4. Don’t try to focus on each and every problem. Men really hates women interfering in everything. Pick your battles carefully and let small things slide. Men love women like this.

5. Be affectionate with limits, Show him that you care but don’t overwhelm him. Keep a little distance. Make him want to see you rather than he turns around or answer his phones.

6. “Be the Flower not the weed” in your love relationship. Relationship grows slowly like a flowering plants with overtime patience, nourishment and care. But weeds on the other hand grows very fast without any control, but in the last these weeds are pulled of and throw away. So be careful and try not to grow over fast in your relationship, which may threw away and let you in trash. Be slow in building your relationship.