Girls working after marriage is good or not?

Yesterday while talking with few of my friends they just started talking about whether girls should work or not after marriage. Few of them were telling that they should work because they should not lose their freedom after getting marry, Like us(boys) even they have their own dreams since they started studying to do something in their life and have their own personality. But few of them strictly opposed it and they are telling that no girls should not go for work, because they have lot of responsibilities to be taken take care at home. Only she can manage the kids and no one else can take care of it like that, also they are arguing that why should she work when we are there to take care of her, if she is qualified let she teach children at home like that.

These things are really provoked me to think whether girls should work or not? As a girl I prefer to work and to achieve something in my career. But what should be the main priority to think of when it comes to family and career. Both are important, being an mother she has to take care of family and to be successful in her career she need to work hard and concentrate on her work as well.

When both are important it depends on how do we manage the things, and to balance everything the support from her life partner and family is also important. Nothing is impossible if we learn to manage the time and responsibilities. We have few great women who achieved a lot in their life being an successful housewife as well. If they can do it means, then cant we do it? We can, only thing is Willpower. We should be confident enough to manage our responsibilities.

Even though we are modernized still we see lot of girls suffering in the case of dowry and other things. These things will happen only if we are dependent, if we are independent then we can avoid them. Everyone speaks torturing girls for dowry should stop and system should change these things. But nothing will change until and unless we change ourselves, and we learn to manage.

This post is not against the guys its about a thought of the guys reaction towards girls. Marriage is commitment, there both are committed to each other , so both should sacrifice and compromise with few things. Don’t force girls always to compromise.